How Your Beliefs About Stress Impact Your Health.

I was so flipping happy to find see this video about the stress response on T.E.D.! As a Kinesiology Major in college, I spent quite of bit of time looking at the stress response and recovery as a sign of health! So for me, hearing blanket statements of stress being harmful to your health has been a bit like fingernails scraping slowly along a chalkboard. If you read my blog post The Power of Stress, then you know that I have a lot of respect for positive and negative aspects of the stress response.

In this video, Kelly McGonigal does a wonderful job covering some of the research looking at how our beliefs about stress change our physiological reactions to stress and how the stress response has a built-in social aspect. She discusses three studies that shed new light on the stress response, and how our beliefs and relationships to stress may actually improve our health.

Feldenkrais TweetChasing meaning is better for your health than avoiding discomfort. -Kelly McGonigal

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The first that Kelly mentions followed groups of people who experience varying levels of stress over several years, and then tracks death records to correlate how stress impacted health. Not only does it show that the people that believe stress can kill die at a much higher rate; but also it shows that the people who had a high level of stress but did not believe that stress was harmful had the lowest risk of dying of anyone in the study.

She explains that the dangerous part of a chronic stress response is in the vascular constrictions that occur while the heart is pumping at an increased rate. However, this vaso-constriction is reduced when people perceive the stress response as helpful. This physiological response resembles the response of joy and courage.

So what does this teach us? We need to shift our relationship to stress. Our beliefs about stress have a direct impact on how our physiology responds to stress.


Stress Facilitates Social Connection

The physical stress response has been shown to release the neurohormone oxytocin. Heard of it? If you follow this blog you may have heard it in reference to birth, bonding, and happiness. Studies show that the stress response increases the release of oxytocin. According to Kelly:

“When oxytocin is released in the stress response, it is motivating you to seek support. Your biological stress response is nudging you to tell someone how you feel instead of bottling it up. Your stress response wants to make sure you notice when someone else in your life is struggling so that you can support each other. When life is difficult, your stress response wants you to be surrounded by people who care about you.

Oxytocin doesn’t only act on your brain, it also acts on your body. One of its main roles in your body it to protect your cardiovascular system from the effects of stress. It’s a natural anti-inflammatory. It also helps your blood vessels stay relaxed during stress…Your heart has receptors for this hormone. And oxytocin helps heart cells regenerate and heal from any stress related damage. This stress hormone strengthens your heart. And the cool thing is that all of these physical benefits of oxytocin are enhanced by social contact and social support.”


A Helping Hand For A Healthy Heart

The final research presented followed about 1,000 adults in the US. The study looked at how they described their level of stress and whether or not they spent time helping people— be it be friends, family, or community members. This study also tracked death records of the folks in the study. The results are inspiring:

“For every major stressful life experience, like financial difficulties or family crisis, that increased the risk of dying by 30 percent. But — and I hope you are expecting a but by now –but that wasn’t true for everyone. People who spent time caring for others showed absolutely no stress-related increase in dying. Zero. Caring created resilience. And so we see once again that the harmful effects of stress on your health are not inevitable.”

Something To Ponder

In the Feldenkrais Method®, we work a lot with reducing parasitic effort—the unnecessary effort most often observed in the strain or activation of the muscles. However, I do believe that there can also be parasitic effort in other areas of our physiology, such as the vascular system, and even in the mind itself.

Seemingly, if we could start to differentiate the experience of stress from that of excitement & courage, then we could have a great foundation in understanding our individual response and grow our capacity to reduce the parasitic effort as a whole — from the skeletal muscles to the vascular system.

So I invite you to take this week to explore your own self-image — both in movement and moving through life. How do you relate to stress? How could you relate differently? What are some of your physiological cues that let you know how you’re relating to stress?

If you gather a bit of insight and want to share it, then please pop on over the Conscious Movements Community on Facebook. 


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Her Books:

  1. The Upside of Stress: Why Stress Is Good For You, and How To Get Good At It
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  1. The Neuroscience of Change: A Compassion-Based Program for Personal Transformation

I would just love it if you would share your thoughts in the comments below on this video and/or on your experience with stress.

  • Lavinia says:

    It all boils down to belief and suggestibility then? And what happens to people who are subject to great pressure for a great length of time? When do things like lack of sleep, no time to eat, sorrow and loss begin to affect a person’s health? I love the idea that helping others makes us live longer, but what if you’re a martyr type who likes to exhaust yourself? While I love these studies and her talk, I think it brings up more questions than answers!

    • Hi Lavinia,

      Thank you for you comment. I can understand some of the confusion, especially if you perceived the talk as a “all you have to do is believe/’The Secret'” sort of talk. But, I don’t think she is saying that “All” boils down to belief and suggestibility. But I certainly believe that she is saying that they play their part, maybe even more so when folks are subject to chronic pressure. Lack of sleep and poor nutrition certainly take their toll and I don’t think she is saying ignore healthy practices. Sorrow and loss, or grief — I imagine that if one views these emotions as a normal process, then the way they embody and process the emotions will be different than one who doesn’t. It also seems that being a martyr is a stance, an attitude, a perspective, or a belief that one has and that giving with this attitude is different than giving without it.

      For me this talk, and the research referred within it, simply demonstrates that what we believe can impact how we respond to life. But it is just that– a part of life. As you know, life is dynamic and full of many parts.

  • Lavinia says:

    Agreed. I know she wasn’t JUST saying that, but I do feel that so many of our “beliefs” are based on who we listen to. And yes, dynamic and full of many parts, so then stress can be good, or bad depending on how you live the other parts 🙂

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